Female-Male Violence

or “There is no f#&%*g difference!”

Had received a link to a video.  It calls “Woman’s Day #throughglass” and it can be seen on Youtube.
Lovely day, shopping, meeting a friend and then… bang…

I’m not a big fan of violence against anyone or anything (as my lazy bum wont allow me too much movement) and could not resist to look for the opposite.
The Violence Against Males.
Here is one on Youtube (in french with EN subs), a bit long over 10 min with all credits, but was glad I did found it.
Physically – My balls felt the pain and were “there” with the main “actor”.
Emotionally – I got a bit closer, to most females, how helpless they must be in those lonely situations.

Some reading about male violence and all around the web.

Listen vs Hear

He said: What do you want to do with this…?
She said: I can’t hear you, I’m doing something. Can’t you see?
He said: No, I can’t see. What do you want to do with this…?
She said: What?
He said: What do you … Do you listen what I’m saying?
She said: Nope.
He said: You didn’t listen or you didn’t hear?
She said: What? @#$@
He said: Don’t worry…
She said: What you wanted, I’m listening. I could not hear you.
He said: No, you didn’t listen. I’ve asked twice…

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We do tend to listen “THE sound and volume” of the voice, instead of what the voice is saying to us.

Pretty good definition:

You cannot control if you can hear the sound. You can control if you listen to the sound. Your ear will hear the sound, whether you want to or not! You can decide if you want to listen to the sound.

Source: Listen vs Hear

Just don’t argue…

… or He / She Said.

He said: … silence…
She said: …silence…

She said: Where you gonna sleep tonight, here as always?
He said: Yes, here on couch.
She said: What is it good for to sleep like that? Why are you doing this? What are you trying to prove?
He said: I like it here. I’m ok.
She said: How often you want to sleep like that?
He said: I’m ok.
He thought: Please, just let me go to sleep, FFS.
She said: Pfft. OK, if that’s what you want…